MS Dhoni needs no introduction, on and off the field. The former caption of IPL team Chennai Super Kings is known for his cool temperament and calm demeanour even in the most pressing situations — qualities entrepreneurs must also have to excel. So, it was natural for Shark Tank India’s Namita Thapar to quiz the batsman about what keeps him “so so cool”.
MS Dhoni, the former captain of the IPL team Chennai Super Kings, is renowned for his cool temperament both on and off the field. Recently, Namita Thapar, host of Shark Tank India, had an insightful chat with Dhoni, where she asked him about the secret behind his calm demeanor. His response was refreshingly straightforward: honesty.
Dhoni emphasized that honesty is a crucial characteristic. When he is honest with himself, he can identify his own shortcomings and those of his team. This self-awareness allows him to continuously improve. In his own words, “It is a very simple rule.” Dhoni also shared his approach when advising youngsters: rather than burdening them with complex advice, he encourages them to be honest with themselves and the people they trust. According to him, presenting an accurate problem is essential for finding the right solution.
Why is honesty so important? Despite technological advancements and changing societal norms, honesty remains a foundational trait for human beings. Arouba Kabir, an emotional and mental health professional, explains that being honest with oneself makes a person reliable and credible. Whether in personal relationships or business dealings, honesty fosters fruitful and productive connections. It brings mental and emotional peace, enhances self-trust, and allows individuals to connect with the world without anxiety or trust issues.
He added, “I don’t tell or ask youngsters anything big. I just tell them to be honest with themselves and the people they are close to and look up to when taking suggestions or advice. That’s because if you present them with a wrong problem, you will always get the wrong solution.
Tips for practicing honesty:
Expand your horizon of acceptance: Recognize that everyone has unique perspectives shaped by their upbringing and environment. Accepting this diversity helps you be honest with your own reality.
Pause and reflect: Before reacting, take a moment to consider the long-term consequences of dishonesty versus the benefits of maintaining integrity.
Communicate clearly: Honesty doesn’t mean harshness. Express your thoughts transparently while respecting others.
Namita Thapar’s candid chat with Dhoni provides valuable insights not only for entrepreneurs but for anyone seeking a cool and composed mindset in life